I’m a Pleasure Mentor, mother, and partner.
Hi, I’m Isabella.
I work with the body as a source of truth, safety, and self-authority.
More than any title, I’m someone who’s learned to listen closely to the body rather than override it.
Earlier in my life, I understood desire intellectually, but hadn’t yet learned how to embody it.
That distinction, between performing and sensing, became the foundation of my work.
My practice sits at the crossroads of lived experience and deep understanding.
I work with the real, human messiness of being embodied, relational, and vitally alive.
I support folks in reclaiming a sense of safety and belonging in their bodies, understand their desires without shame, and to build intimate lives that feel honest and nourishing.
I don’t believe in forcing transformation or overriding the nervous system in the name of growth.
I believe in attunement, consent, and learning how to listen to the body’s wisdom, even when it’s quiet, conflicted, or afraid.
I’ve been doing this work for over a decade.
Through private mentorship, teaching, writing, and facilitation.
My background spans sexuality education, women’s health, nervous system care, and embodied support, including formal training as a birth doula.
Supporting people through birth and major life thresholds shaped everything I understand about power, autonomy, intimacy, and safety in the body.
While I no longer practice as a doula, that foundation lives on in my work.
I don’t position myself as an expert above you.
I walk beside you, as someone who knows the terrain because I’ve journeyed it too.
I see pleasure as information.
A way the body communicates safety, truth, and readiness.
Much of what passes for sexual liberation work ignores the nervous system entirely, focusing on technique without addressing why desire shuts down or why intimacy can feel unsafe.
My work is grounded in nervous system literacy, neuroscience, and evidence-based sensual knowledge, alongside spiritual psychology and symbolic, mythic frameworks.
I refuse the idea that healing must be harsh, performative, or endlessly effortful.
And I don’t believe that pleasure is something we “manifest” by bypassing pain. Real reclamation happens when we learn to listen to the body, without rushing it, fixing it, or demanding outcomes.
This work lives in the integration: science with soul, depth with discernment, embodiment without dogma.
If You Feel a Resonance
This work is for you if you’re curious, reflective, and ready to meet your body with honesty rather than force.
You’ll likely feel at home here if you want depth without dogma, science without sterility, and spirituality without bypassing.
This may not be the right space if you want quick fixes or rigid formulas. That’s okay. There are many paths. This is simply this one.
If you’re ready to move slowly enough to feel what’s true, and brave enough to question inherited stories about sex, worth, and power…
You’re in the right place.
If this stirred something within you, follow the thread of desire.