This work is intimate. It unfolds slowly, relationally, and over time.
What follows are reflections from people who have walked this path, in their own words, shaped by their own lives, desires, and reckonings.
No two experiences are the same. What connects them is depth, honesty, and a willingness to meet themselves where they are.
Testimonials
“When I joined the first workshop, I was nervous and unsure. I had experienced sexual trauma many times and carried deep shame around my body and desire. I didn’t know if I would feel exposed, embarrassed, or out of place, so at first, I listened quietly, taking everything in. Over time, something softened.
Through Isabella’s guidance, I began to feel safe in my body again.
I experienced my sexuality not as something broken or performative, but as love itself, creative, alive, and deeply healing.
This work changed my life. I truly have learned that my sexual self is beautiful, and is the path to self-love.
It was through the Eros community and guided by Isabella that I discovered my inner healer. I've been to so many therapists without seeing this part of me budge.
This was the path to healing for me.”
Featured Voices
Kjersti, she/her.
“This was a life-changing experience for me. After spending over a year in weekly therapy, I had found deep healing, but still felt disconnected from my sexuality.
The structured nature of The Pleasure Devotional gave me an easy-to-follow series of journal prompts and self-date activities. This helped me honor the reality that it’s okay to take my time and be gentle with myself in this process.
Ultimately, this gave me the gentle direction and support I needed to create a shift and lasting changes in my life.
After dedicating this time and intention to my body and self, I’ve been re-engaging with my sexuality and sexual self.
I have been able to let go of dysfunctional habits that kept me feeling temporarily safe, but ultimately unseen.
Through this course, I have found myself again.”
Bird, she/they.
“Before I started sessions with Isabella, I had never really explored the aspect of pleasure or sexuality in my life, so I hadn’t developed the confidence that comes with knowing yourself. Her support and excitement around my growth, however big or small, has made a big impact on my own support and excitement of myself.
I love Isabella’s insight and how she reframes the simplest ideas, which in turn connect so deeply.
I really trust her outlook on life and how she shows up in support. She supports me in coming to my own conclusions and wants my actions to feel aligned with what I want or how I feel. Very compassionate and love-centred!
I feel I have such a different understanding of what life is and can be! Switching my mindset to be playful whenever I can and reducing my anxiety, stress, and overthinking. That allows me to show up more authentically and confidently in my personal relationships and gives me the courage to take steps I would have talked myself out of in the past!
It’s really fun receiving support from someone who is genuinely curious about where I’m at in life, and leads with excitement when talking/ listening to me.”
-Jake, he/his.
“Working with Isabella 1:1 has been one of the greatest gifts and a true act of self-care. She makes me feel deeply seen, heard, and nurtured, while offering insight that is both wise and practical.
Each session is rich with clarity and joy, and she has helped me navigate some of the hardest moments of my life, from relationships to self-talk.
What I love most is how personalised her support feels. She is a true co-conspirator of my pleasure, helping me explore her teachings in ways that feel alive, creative, and deeply my own.”
-Julie, she/her.
This workshop community has been such a supportive, nourishing space for me in the midst of a crazy year with big shifts.
I learned new ways to relate to myself and be in community through significant ups and downs in my personal life.
I've learned that I'm much more sensual and sexual than I thought I was. This was really surprising and liberating.
I'm finding new ways to partner with my body and find what brings her pleasure.
If you're curious about the community, jump in!
-Anonymous Workshop Member.
Community Reflections
“I feel like I have weathered so many storms this year, and being in this community has helped me to continue to grow even during times of decay and through thorns.
I’ve been journaling a lot more, and I have increased my communication skills tenfold at the very least.
I’ve got in touch with sides of myself that I haven’t been able to prior, and I’m excited to continue this work!
Ana, she/her.
“When I first signed up, I was harbouring delicate hopes for profound healing, but also, if I'm honest, a fair amount of scepticism that monthly workshops could deliver lasting change.
I'm thrilled to report that these workshops have, in fact, healed some of my oldest and most tender emotional wounds, as well as rippled outwards to deliver positive change and evolution in areas I never even expected them to touch upon!”
Laura, she/her.
“Isabella's methods and expertise are transformative.
I came expecting to feel connected to my body and left with a sexual and spiritual breakthrough.
If you get the chance to join Isabella's community or participate in one of her workshops, it is well worth your time, heart, money, and energy.”
Nadège, she/her.
“Eros has been such a beautiful, safe space that I am so proud to be a part of. Just carving out time to learn more about myself has been paramount. Being part of this community has been so rewarding.
Never underestimate the power of a hype squad! Also, Isabella is such a joy. Her advice ripples through my head for weeks after an Eros call. My partner and I have been referencing her all the time.”
Stevie, she/they.
This workshop was invaluable. I feel that I have been able to start pinpointing what I need to fully allow myself to breathe in and embrace my erotic self.
I've learned how important it is for me to witness MYSELF.
Finding Isabella and the community and teachings she offers has changed my life positively in countless ways. I'm learning to embrace and express the erotic and juicy parts of myself, I'm learning my true worth and how to move about the world, feeling safe and seen.
Having a safe space to show vulnerability and learn what my greater desires are has helped ground me in so many parts of my life, in my own sexual journey as well as my human experience.
Callie, she/her.
“I had such a positive experience in the community.
I’ve been learning how to continue breaking down the harmful narratives I internalized as a young person and how to live more authentically in tune with the special energy I bring to the world.
Isabella has such beautiful energy and passion that welcomes the workshop participants to open up to honesty, healing, and the beauty of the erotic in their own lives.
The ritual suggestions, journal prompts, thoughtful seminars, and community of accountability feels true, good, and erotic to me.”
Eli J., they/them.
“After taking this course, I realised that little things in my day can be pleasurable, and it’s not always these grand gestures!
Her nature of being and “Isabella-isms” is so simple and yet so profound. Isabella honestly has been the guide I was always seeking and who I wish I had growing up, as I felt alone most of my life or not heard.
I am always the first to sign up for anything she offers if I can, because I know I will always gain something from her. My relationship with myself and others has grown immensely because of her wisdom.
I find myself constantly saying to myself and others, “wanna hear what Isabella says about that?” Everything is so tangible and obtainable with her. No one needs fancy items in and out of the bedroom to get her message. It’s inside of you, but she holds sacredness for it and helps us rewrite old narratives that don’t serve us anymore”.
Courtney, she/they.
“That was amazing! I learned to let go of my preconceived notions of pleasure (that it has to be an "event", I need hours, etc.), realized I need mental stimulation before I can get into physical stimulation, found the joy in "micro-pleasuring" and taking the pressure off, and started exploring what was actually pleasurable vs what is conditioned from the patriarchy when it comes to productivity.
Isabella is an amazing sensuality doula who is adept at creating safe containers for female-identifying people. I have taken a number of her courses, and I feel like with each course I take from her, my patriarchal conditioning is chipped away bit by bit.
Because of Isabella's teachings, I am redefining what pleasure means to me and bringing pleasure into everything I do! I find that actually,
I get MORE done in less time when I orient myself towards pleasure!”
Kari, she/her.
“I'm currently working through Eros and Elevate, and have completed the Sensual Self Bondage workshop, which was a total game-changer for me.
Not only did I learn some basic knots and ties (the mermaid tie is now a part of my evening ritual, so incredible for my anxiety and ADHD!), but Isabella really helped me normalize self-bondage in a non-sexual way.
Not to say I don't LOVE sexual bondage (I really do), but she taught me that I can tie myself up at home as a way to connect with my sensuality, or feel the pressure of the rope against my skin to ease anxiety and ground myself in my body. It's a short class, and you can work through it at your own pace.
Highly recommend!”
-Blair Allison, she/her.
“I seriously feel like the biggest fangirl of Isabella Frappier!
The attention, dedication, love, humor, intelligence, and compassion she brings to each of the workshops and spaces is the deep healing the collective is needing.
Trauma-informed, lovingly holding you wherever you are, and the MAGIC she brings has LITERALLY changed my life!”
-Anonymous Community Member
Isabella taught me so much about my nervous system: how it works, how to witness activation, how to regulate, and more.
I feel so much more confident and capable in all areas of my life.
Inside the Mentorship
-Melinda B., she/hers.
“Working with Isabella was a true pleasure. Her open and inviting presence was exactly the healing that I needed.
She offered space without judgment and allowed me to express some real fears through some dream analysis.
It’s always wonderful to meet a woman who is such a cheerleader for self-expression!”
-Alexis, she/hers.
"Isabella has had such a positive impact on my life since our first session. She opened my mind to aspects of my own personality I had not even realized.
I very much look forward to our sessions, and her session follow-up notes are incredibly helpful and make it possible to reflect on that specific session long after it is over."
-William, he/his.
“I began my journey with Isabella as my pleasure mentor in the spring of 2023. I was at a point in my life where I knew substantial change was in front of me, in order to reconnect with myself and my joy. I had found Isabella through her podcast, Sex Magic, which I listened to as a ritual, a form of self-tending, and a form of expanding what I thought was possible when it came to pleasure, love, and energy. Being lucky enough to work with her one-on-one through this membership has been one of the biggest gifts I have ever given myself.
Since I began this mentorship, I have been able to let go of so many negative thought patterns and beliefs that no longer serve me. I gained the confidence and support to finally start asking myself what I want, and most importantly, I gained the belief that I deserve those things.
I love receiving my session follow-up emails that are always overflowing with support for me to turn to during the week, and individualized journal prompts/homeplay exercises to go deeper. Isabella’s pleasure-based, holistic mentorship has given me tools I will be joyfully using for the rest of my life. “
-Zellah, she/hers.
“I could barely feel joy. My sexual self was dead. I was married and took it upon myself to “fix” what was wrong with our intimacy. I had no relationship with my own body.
I discovered Isabella after watching Goop and was desperate for what she was teaching. I decided to try some of her online courses. Each activity Isabella led had a variety of entry levels. I could dip my toe in or take a big risk. She is also so genuinely kind, thoughtful, and so much fun! I needed that because I was scared to visit my body, fearful of the shame that reigned over my sexual self.
With each teaching she offered, I felt curious, creative, sensations I’d forgotten about and a budding connection to my heart. I participated in The Red Priestess and Sex With the Elements guided meditations, and not only did my spirit start to rise above shame, but I started feeling my authentic connection to the world around me.
I’ve been doing one-on-one mentorship now with Isabella for a few months, and I am alive. She is teaching me to embody my own sacred, erotic feminine energy. Through sex magic, experiences I’ve only ever dreamed of are effortlessly coming into my life: relationships, travel, career change and amazing sex.
The world has only just started to open up, and the catalyst has been Isabella, an erotic goddess and true teacher. I am honored and deeply grateful that I get to work with and learn from her!”
-K.J., she/hers.
“There is life before working with Isabella and life after. I came to Isabella towards the end of a very stagnant, dark chapter in my life. I had been in a sexless relationship for years, was navigating a challenging shift in my career, had no deep friendships, and couldn't remember the last time I had felt fully alive in my body.
I was a sceptical person and felt disempowered and jaded. Isabella lovingly and patiently received me in this state, and provided me with practices to begin to tap into the inner erotic energy that lay dormant within me. Thus began a transformative journey of self trust and surrender.
Within just a few weeks, lovers, friendships, community, and financial abundance came rushing into my life in the most magical way possible. Today, my life is full to the brim with passion, connection, adventure, and most importantly, a loving and tender relationship with myself.
What I love most about working with Isabella is that I don't feel like she is fixing me, I feel like she is holding space and witnessing me in such an authentic way that I am able to see my own power and step into it fully. I have no doubt today that I am a powerful witch, and I am forever grateful to her for helping me see that.”
-Asha, she/hers.
“We came to Isabella at a point where we loved each other deeply, but felt stuck, emotionally disconnected, sexually distant, and unsure how to find our way back without blame or defensiveness.
What surprised us most was how safe the space felt. Isabella didn’t take sides or try to ‘fix’ us. She helped us slow down, listen differently, and understand what was happening beneath our patterns.
Through this work, we learned how to communicate with more honesty and less fear, how to stay present during difficult conversations, and how to reconnect with intimacy in a way that felt natural rather than forced.
We didn’t just improve our relationship, we learned how to meet each other with more compassion and curiosity. That has changed everything.”
-Silvie & Alan.
“Working with Isabella completely shifted how we relate, not just sexually, but energetically.
We already had a good relationship, but something was missing, some part felt unexplored. Isabella helped us reconnect to our bodies, our curiosity, and the parts of ourselves we’d quietly muted over time.
The sessions felt exciting, grounded, and surprisingly practical. We learned how to stay attuned to each other, how to name desire without pressure, and how to bring more presence and pleasure into our lives.
Our relationship now feels more honest, more erotic, and more alive, not because we became someone else, but because we came back to the spark of our relationship.”
-G & B.
There’s no single way to enter this work.
Some people begin in community.
Some begin in self-study.
Some arrive ready for private mentorship.
The Pathways page is designed to help you find the form that fits where you are now.