Words written at the intersection of pleasure, psychology, intimacy, and self-trust.
Some are personal.
Some are instructional.
Most are an invitation to look again, at desire, at power, and at what you’ve been taught to suppress.
Read what calls. Leave the rest.
Collected Writings
Orgasm Denial: The Sex Skill You Didn’t Know You Needed
An exploration of orgasm denial as an erotic skill, revealing how restraint, control, and anticipation can deepen pleasure, embodiment, and desire.
How To Be Your Own Daddy Dom
An exploration of solo Daddy Dom dynamics, self-leadership, and erotic discipline. Revealing how power play can become a deeply intimate relationship with oneself.
How to Get Kinky, Even When Your Partner Isn’t
A compassionate guide to navigating mismatched desires, communicating kink with care, and honouring both longing and consent within partnered relationships.
BDSM: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink
A grounded introduction to BDSM that reframes kink as a practice of consent, communication, and care, offering a safer, more conscious entry into power play and erotic exploration.