Words written at the intersection of pleasure, psychology, intimacy, and self-trust.
Some are personal.
Some are instructional.
Most are an invitation to look again, at desire, at power, and at what you’ve been taught to suppress.
Read what calls. Leave the rest.
Collected Writings
How to Get Kinky, Even When Your Partner Isn’t
A compassionate guide to navigating mismatched desires, communicating kink with care, and honouring both longing and consent within partnered relationships.
BDSM: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink
A grounded introduction to BDSM that reframes kink as a practice of consent, communication, and care, offering a safer, more conscious entry into power play and erotic exploration.