Words written at the intersection of pleasure, psychology, intimacy, and self-trust.

Some are personal.
Some are instructional.
Most are an invitation to look again, at desire, at power, and at what you’ve been taught to suppress.

Read what calls. Leave the rest.

A bicycle parked next to a bike rack outside on a sidewalk.

Collected Writings

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When the ‘Cool Girl’ Is Self-Protection

An exploration of the “cool girl” trope in People We Meet on Vacation, examining how feminine receptivity, desire, and embodiment can quietly shut down when emotional safety is prioritised over vulnerability and truth.