Words written at the intersection of pleasure, psychology, intimacy, and self-trust.
Some are personal.
Some are instructional.
Most are an invitation to look again, at desire, at power, and at what you’ve been taught to suppress.
Read what calls. Leave the rest.
Collected Writings
What Is Pleasure-Based Personal Development?
What is pleasure-based personal development? Explore Isabella Frappier’s body-led, nervous-system-aware approach to growth that prioritises truth, sustainability, and embodied change.
Orgasm Denial: The Sex Skill You Didn’t Know You Needed
Orgasm denial isn’t about deprivation, it’s about control, pleasure, embodiment, and desire. Learn what it is, how it differs from edging, and why it can transform your sex life.
How To Be Your Own Daddy Dom
You don’t need a partner to explore power play. Solo Daddy Dom BDSM blends structure, self-care, discipline, and erotic imagination into a deeply satisfying practice. This article shows you how to define your desires, set rules, create rewards and punishments, and use aftercare to turn solo play into a transformative—and very hot—experience.
How to Get Kinky, Even When Your Partner Isn’t
Curious about kink but unsure how to bring it up with your partner? This article explores how to communicate BDSM desires with honesty, care, and respect, without pressure or ultimatums.
From defining what “kinky” really means to finding creative compromises and embracing solo exploration, this piece offers a compassionate roadmap for honoring both desire and consent.
5 Reasons Why Sex Toys are for Men
Sex toys aren’t just for women—and they’re not just novelty items. For men, toys can enhance pleasure, build confidence, extend stamina, and unlock entirely new sensations, both solo and partnered.
This article breaks down five compelling reasons why sex toys deserve a place in men’s pleasure, and why letting go of outdated norms can lead to better sex for everyone.
BDSM: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink
Forget everything movies taught you about BDSM. At its core, it’s a practice of consent, communication, and care—and those principles can transform any intimate experience. From clearer desires to better aftercare, this post opens Pandora’s box on how kink wisdom can make your relationship hotter, safer, and more satisfying.
3 Steps to Exploring Your Sexuality
Your sexuality doesn’t have to fit a label to be valid. This post offers a gentle, honest guide to reconnecting with yourself, questioning inherited beliefs, and embracing sexuality as something expansive, playful, and uniquely yours.
Feminine & Masculine Energy
How To Harness Your Feminine and Masculine Energies To Improve Your Love Life
More Than Mum
Explore ways for mums who feel sexually hungry to reconnect with their sexuality, and educate their partners on how to be the best support possible.
How to Become a Clit Whisperer
How’s advanced is your ‘clit-eracy’ knowledge? Try 10 new techniques today.